Essay Questions

What is your most memorable childhood experience?My most memorable experiences as a child were our family dinners. Almost every night my brothers, my parents, and I would sit around a table, share a meal, and talk about our accomplishments and struggles. Many times we would simply sit and enjoy the silences. These dinners gave me a sense of belonging and togetherness that helped shape me into the person that I am today.
What immediate family member do you closely identify with and why?I identify most closely to my older brother. I look up to him in many ways. As a child I wanted to be as smart, fast, brave, cool, and strong as he was. Now, I still strive to be as brave and as wise as he, but I also aim to be as kind and understanding. My brother is now a college professor, and is helping young adults become excited about their education. He is always looking for a way to make his community better, and I try and emulate this behavior every day.
What character traits do you admire in an individual?I am lucky to be surrounded by wonderful friends and family in my life, and all of these individuals are empathetic people who are reflective listeners. When I need help, or if I want to share a success, I know that my story will be heard and met with empathy. The people who I admire the most are empathetic individuals who listen well.
What is the funniest thing ever to happen to you?I cannot pinpoint a singular event that I could deem the funniest thing that ever happened to me, but I can say that humor is essential to me in my everyday life. The work I do is often intense, and humor is often my favorite coping tool. Growing up, and still to this day, I am always looking for different ways to make people laugh. I would say that I have a dry or dark sense of humor. In a second life I would love to be a comedic writer.
If time and money were not an issue, where would you travel and why?Some years ago my wife and I hiked about two hundred miles in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado, and I fell in love with beauty of the mountains. Someday when we have more time, my wife and I plan to do different long hikes in the US and abroad. I would love to hike the Pacific Crest Trail someday.
When and if you ever have children, what would you like to pass on to them?Through my work I have found that the world can be tough, but I am lucky to have the ability to see beauty every day no matter how difficult my day was. As my son and daughter grow older I want to pass along my love of service to them, and I hope they adopt my optimism and my ability to see beauty in everyday life.